Are you desperate to find out how to make your ex fall in love with you — all over again? In fact, even more than before.
You’re not alone in your wish. In fact, love is so powerful and the right kind of love can bind you together forever.
If you have recently broken up with the one that you love nothing would please you more than to know that they love you more deeply than they did when you were together the last time.
Sometimes there are reasons why a relationship ends and you just didn’t work out and in fact may be better off moving on.
However there are also times when really you should be together but something or someone may have driven a wedge between you and you really deserve to be with them and it’s worth fixing.
So if you just lost your way and truly believe that you belong together then just reading this article will really help you with your next step.
Here are 10 tried and true ways to make your ex fall in love with you all over again – no matter why you broke up.
#1 – Be More Independent and Less Clingy
This is particularly for women, though it can of course apply to guys too. Being too clingy and spending too much time with the one you love – especially if they want and need space at times – can ruin your relationship. It’s time to show that you are more independent than you used to be. It’s a good idea to do something that your ex will notice your independence.
#2 – Give Them More Space
This one ties in with number 1. Guys in particular complain that their girlfriends didn’t give them enough space, in fact sometimes suffocated them. By giving your ex more space they get the chance to miss you more and really enjoy when you are together. It may not come easily first off but it’s well worth this little sacrifice. You may actually find that the more you are away from them the more they will want to be with you.
#3 – Become The Best Version Of You You Can Be
Sometimes in a relationship you can end up losing yourself in it, this is particularly try for women. When you lose yourself you start to forget who you really are.
Now that you’re alone you can start to recall who you were and start bettering yourself. It’s time to reconnect with friends, family members, find new hobbies and become the person that your ex fell in loe with.
#4 – Time Heals All Wounds
if you really want to get your ex back and get back together then there may be some minor things that you will need to forgive and forget to best move on. Show your ex that you forgive and don’t sweat the small things. Your ex will love you for it.
#5 – Don’t Make Them Feel Guilty
In a childish way making someone can feel guilty but at the end of the day it won’t serve you well. It’s best to avoid guilt tactics and be mature about this. Making your ex feel bad won’t make them fall in love with you. You want to get your ex back on the best terms possible and that means no guilt and a passionate everlasting love instead.
# 6 – Be Gracious And Sincere
It’s time to communicate in an adult to adult way. Chances are during your break up you’ve been emotional and aggressive. Now is the time to stop. What you need to do is reconnect with your ex with no strings attached. Be open to hear what negative things they have to say about you and be sincere in your comments on what you perceive you could have done better in your relationship. This will go a long way.
# 7 – Stop Being So Dramatic
Drama makes things much worse than they need to be – especially in long term loving relationships. If you are always overly dramatic, and chances are you’ve been told about this, then it’s time to take a deep breath and do what you can to stop it. This is a recipe for relationship doom.
If you spend too much time with people who are too dramatic then look at reducing the time you spend with them. Drama is one of the main reasons why people end relationships.
# 8 – Be Honest About Yourself
Nobody is perfect and it’s time you accept that and admit it to yourself and perhaps to your ex. Chances are your ex told you some things that were driving a wedge between you and you didn’t listen or were too egotistical to take any notice. Ego in a relationship is not a good thing. Simply by admitting your faults can go a long way to making your ex fall in love with you again.
# 9 – Remember What They Fell In Love With
Your ex was madly in love with you once and those fingers are still lingering below the surface. It’s important to try and think about the things they fell in love with you. Try to come up with some notes of all the positive things they said about you or how you made them feel when they were in love with you.
# 10 – Don’t Be Easy
Don’t be easy mentally, physically or spiritually. It’s time to have some self respect and not accept anything to get them back. It’s time to add more to your life and to not be so available to them. This will intrigude your ex and is a great way to start making them fall in love with you again.