Read do’s and dont’s of being friends with an ex boyfriend
If you’re friends with an ex boyfriend or thinking of becoming friends with an ex boyfriend after a painful break up, this is only natural.
But before you continue any further you need to look at some important dos and don’ts.
It’s only natural for you to want to be friends with an ex boyfriend if you want to get him back. You feel that if he saw you all the time and spent time with you all the time that he would realise his head over heals in love with you, you’re the one, and will never let you go.
Unfortunately it’s very rare that this happens when you stay friends with an ex and I’ll explain why.
If he sees you all the time, if you casually hang out, even if you have sex with one another, it won’t actually make him want to see you more.
In fact, he could be seeing TOO MUCH of you already and it could really dampen any lingering feelings he has for you.
friends with an ex boyfriend But let’s look at something else.
Let’s say he’s used to seeing you all the time and then all of a sudden you just aren’t around – you’re not readily available, you’re busy with other things, you don’t have time for him.
And guess what happens to him.
He starts thinking about you.
He starts wondering what you’re doing.
He starts wondering who the hell you’re with.
He starts thinking why the hell don’t you have time for him.
See what can magically happen by having little or nothing to do with him rather than staying friends forever??
He starts obsessing about you.
Imagine what a wonderful feeling that would be.
After being ignored and not feeling like his number one he could start messaging you saying that you’re the love of his life and that you must get back together at once — in fact, each night that you’re apart just feels WRONG.
If you’re friends with an ex boyfriend then it’s really time to rethink and get back some of that power that you’ve given to him for so long.