So your status is back to solo. It has happened once again. Things were good in the beginning of your relationship, you were madly in love, you thought you were be together forever, but then something tragic happened.
Something that would devastate you. Something that you never saw happening. Your ex lover has let you know in no uncertain terms that they no longer want to be with you anymore.
You may have even heard the tragic words Ï love you but I’m not in love with you anymore.
Yikes, those words really sting.
Somehow this was the straw that broke the camel’s back. Your lover broke it off with you, and now it’s over. After the fighting and arguments have lost their fire, you realize a certain thing: you wished it had never happened.
And now you’re desperate to do just about anything to get them back in your life — so you can be happy again — and so the pain can stop.
So when you want your ex lover back in your arms what IS you first step??
At this point, there is only one thing and one thing only that is spinning in your head: you have to get your ex back. First, it becomes a simple want, then it becomes a need, now it has become a full-blown creepy type of an obsession. You don’t care about work, you don’t care about school, you don’t care about eating, sleep doesn’t come easy, and you even neglect your own friends and family to achieve your goal.
But even though you really want your ex back NOTHING and I mean NOTHING seems to be working to get them back into your life and your bed.
All those little tricks that worked before are doing the opposite right now.
In fact, with every extra thing you do you seem to push your guy or gal further away — and even into someone else’s arms.
And now your head is spinning, as well as your mind, trying to figure out what you can do right now to make them want you back ASAP.
Now you’ve hit rock bottom. You leave 500 messages a day on their voice mail. You send constant love letters saying how much you need them. You try to talk to their friend to see what event your ex will be. In other words, you give them the lock and key to your soul.
Well this all has to end now. You don’t have to take drastic measures to get you ex back. There are ways to getting your ex-lover back without losing your dignity.
First Step – You need to get control of your emotions, the sooner the better. Because the sooner you can control them the sooner you can attract your ex back into your life.
Second Step – Once you’ve got your emotions under control it’s now time to work your magic to make your ex boyfriend or girlfriend that their life is miserable without you.
This does happen – more often than you think.
Third Step – of course is once you are back together you really need to make sure that you don’t repeat those destructive relationship patterns that helped you separate in the first place.
Fourth Step – Living happily every after, of course :O)
You know, there is nothing wrong with wanting to get your relationship back. A lot of couples have a short break and come back even stronger than before.
This can be true for the two of you as well, as long as you follow the right advice on how to win them back.